Advice

I say we start a discussion devoted to giving and getting advice- on anything! From relationships and crushes, to hairstyles and shoes! Maybe even life questions in general, who knows- who cares ;) So let's ask away, or lend your advice if you have a minute!
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Ill start by asking what is everyones opinion on piercings, facial Good or Bad? As well as the gages in the ear, yay or nay?! be HONEST!!! Follow your response with a question ladies~

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Permalink Reply by Jincey on January 13, 2010 at 4:24pm
Not totally into face piercing. HOWEVER, some girls look really cute with that above-the-lip piercing that looks like a mole (see the advertisement to the right- Madison Young). A cute little nose piercing works too, but a stud- not a hoop. Sorry. eek!
Permalink Reply by BKR on January 13, 2010 at 7:27pm
I can't say I have ever had more than a momentary fleeting urge to pierce anything on my face. My piercings are like my tattoos...hidden. Even though I have quite a few of them, most people would never suspect. Maybe it's because from 8-5 I am an executive in a conservative business world that has predetermined I am to look a certain way. But as far as my ladies go... Tatt's, piercings, any distinguishable differences in style, those are the things that make them unique and they are beautiful to me. So for your question... When is comes to piercing/gages etc. "Just say yes" ;)
metta, -B
Permalink Reply by Caroline on January 17, 2010 at 8:02am
I like some facial piercings, but they have to work on the person. I have a loop in my nose that I love and I think they're really cute on the right person. Eyebrow rings, not so attractive in my book. As for gauges, I have 0's in both ears myself, and I think so long as they're not outrageously large, they look very good on some people.

As for advice I need, how do I get myself out there more? I've been to the gay club in town, and have had zero luck. For one, due to my appearance, everyone thinks I'm straight at first glance, and since there are lots of straight girls in this specific club, I'm almost instantly overlooked. I have plenty of gay male friends, and plenty of straight male friends, but hardly any female friends at all, of either sexual orientation. How can I remedy this?
Permalink Reply by LeaH on January 17, 2010 at 4:14pm
Typical problem with being gay, the community is always to small! I know it may not sound like your thing but these days meeting online is usually a nice way to make friends/dates. It may seem sjhady, but as long as you are safe it is worth a shot right? As for looking straight (which is a plus) dont worry, the more you are seen at the gay spots the more you will be noticed as a gay girl and not a straight girl who just hangs out there. Didnt notice where it is that you currently live but when the gay scene is limited unfortunately so are your option :(

Caroline said:
I like some facial piercings, but they have to work on the person. I have a loop in my nose that I love and I think they're really cute on the right person. Eyebrow rings, not so attractive in my book. As for gauges, I have 0's in both ears myself, and I think so long as they're not outrageously large, they look very good on some people.

As for advice I need, how do I get myself out there more? I've been to the gay club in town, and have had zero luck. For one, due to my appearance, everyone thinks I'm straight at first glance, and since there are lots of straight girls in this specific club, I'm almost instantly overlooked. I have plenty of gay male friends, and plenty of straight male friends, but hardly any female friends at all, of either sexual orientation. How can I remedy this?
Permalink Reply by Pamdora's Box on January 17, 2010 at 9:30pm
I have experimented with many pericings and gauges over the years and have found them to suit me nicely. I have my lip pierced and my ears gagued to nearly 1/2 inch. and I am strongly considering getting my septum done.. People often ask it my ears or my style limit my ability to work in a professional field and I tell them that I have never had any problems. I think talent and skills are aften assumed to be linked to physical appearence. In fact, I was hired for a hospitality job a few years back and a few weeks into the job, I was aksed if my gaguges were new. Apparently they boss didn't even notice them during the inerview becasue he was focused on my personality and fit for the job. So my advice is that if you should be able to wear your style proudly and not worry about what others think. If your style includes holes or piercings or tats then be proud of the individual that you are cuz you are rad.

As for not being known on the small town gay scene.... I think that confidence is the most attractive accessory. Even if youfeel like you look straight, if you rock up to a hotty the the club with confidence, she will definitly see the gay in you. Don't be a wall flower. Get out there and have fun!
Permalink Reply by Teresa on January 18, 2010 at 8:55am
Hmmm... I think so far the only tattoo that's "turned me off" was a rather large tribal one on a woman's neck (it just wasn't flattering I guess?)... otherwise, I like tattoos, gauges and piercings just fine, having both myself. It's not a requirment, but its definatly not a turn off. I think so far, my favorite was a lip piercing on this woman I dated... Wow.
Permalink Reply by Erin K on January 23, 2010 at 4:05am
A LOT of my gay friends have a problem like this. Sex drive is different with everybody. Im very sure you still turn her on, but unfortunately sex isnt essential for her, as much as it is for you. Dont really have an answer besides you arent the only one!!!!!!

DJ said:
I need advice =] So me and my girl have totally different libidos...I can get it on all day, any day, but she on the other hand doesnt. Im with her all the time and out of 6 or 7 times i try in a week, i get lucky like 1 maybe 2 and it bothers me because i get self conscious sometimes and think its me or that maybe shes not that attracted to me or some other thing. I tried talking to her about it and she said that its just that she doesnt wanna do the hanky panky 24/7...watever..Anyways so i ask...does anypne else have this issue? How can i change this, turn her on without making it obvious, or another way i can reach out to her about it?
Permalink Reply by Alex on January 31, 2010 at 2:04am
Exactly. I don't need to have sex all the time, with once a week I'm good, maybe twice, and that
doesn't mean I'm not attracted to my partner or anything. I just have way too many things to take
care of that need my attention and are far more important than sex, and by the time I get home
I'm way too exhausted to have sex.

Erin K said:
A LOT of my gay friends have a problem like this. Sex drive is different with everybody. Im very sure you still turn her on, but unfortunately sex isnt essential for her, as much as it is for you. Dont really have an answer besides you arent the only one!!!!!!

DJ said:
I need advice =] So me and my girl have totally different libidos...I can get it on all day, any day, but she on the other hand doesnt. Im with her all the time and out of 6 or 7 times i try in a week, i get lucky like 1 maybe 2 and it bothers me because i get self conscious sometimes and think its me or that maybe shes not that attracted to me or some other thing. I tried talking to her about it and she said that its just that she doesnt wanna do the hanky panky 24/7...watever..Anyways so i ask...does anypne else have this issue? How can i change this, turn her on without making it obvious, or another way i can reach out to her about it?
Permalink Reply by cherry ripe on February 12, 2010 at 3:19pm
I know a lot of gay couples who have struggled with this. In fact its ended quite a few relationships as well. We fall in love because of how somebody is, then we leave them because of what they do.

I've got a very high libido and I have been in two mis-matched relationships in regards to libido. Eventually you get used to 2 days a week - it doesn't mean they don't love you - it just means that they don't feel like sex as often as you do. You start to really look forward to sex and it feels like such an achievement when you finally get it *grins* Its like Christmas!

The only time it was really bad for me was when one of my gf's lost interest in sex completely. She'd always had a low libido but this took me by surprise. She wouldn't talk about it and resented me pushing her for sex/ reasons/ anything. We started having sex about 6 months later but the damage was done. Sex was never the same and we were never the same again.

After the breakup I discovered that she had beliefs about sex that were incompatible with mine, which partly explained her resentment towards me. I felt sex was vitally important in a relationship, she didn't feel sex was important at all. She thought your libido was something you could 'turn off' when it wasn't needed, whereas that was an impossibility for me.

Luckily in my next relationship I found someone was happy to talk about sex as well, rather than just do it.

Erin K said:
A LOT of my gay friends have a problem like this. Sex drive is different with everybody. Im very sure you still turn her on, but unfortunately sex isnt essential for her, as much as it is for you. Dont really have an answer besides you arent the only one!!!!!!

DJ said:
I need advice =] So me and my girl have totally different libidos...I can get it on all day, any day, but she on the other hand doesnt. Im with her all the time and out of 6 or 7 times i try in a week, i get lucky like 1 maybe 2 and it bothers me because i get self conscious sometimes and think its me or that maybe shes not that attracted to me or some other thing. I tried talking to her about it and she said that its just that she doesnt wanna do the hanky panky 24/7...watever..Anyways so i ask...does anypne else have this issue? How can i change this, turn her on without making it obvious, or another way i can reach out to her about it?
Permalink Reply by Thays Vega on February 13, 2010 at 12:14pm
I love it hehehe I find it totally hot =D
Permalink Reply by Kate Dorchester on March 12, 2010 at 4:26am
Piercings. I'm thinking of getting my nipples done. I want to have a ring going though each nipple. I'm not sure. How to do it?

At home I'm wearing a tight T-shirt. No bra. When I'm wearing my tight T-shirt, then the rings are very visible. Isn't that exciting?

Even better. You can have a thin chain between the rings. Shall I put the chain on as I'm wearing my tight T-shirt? Or only when naked.

There is something. I'm a teacher. I'm standing in front of the class. Can I make sure the kids will not see my rings? Should I wear a bra?
Permalink Reply by pajinski on March 23, 2010 at 9:49pm
What about joining a women's sports team?

Caroline said:
I like some facial piercings, but they have to work on the person. I have a loop in my nose that I love and I think they're really cute on the right person. Eyebrow rings, not so attractive in my book. As for gauges, I have 0's in both ears myself, and I think so long as they're not outrageously large, they look very good on some people.

As for advice I need, how do I get myself out there more? I've been to the gay club in town, and have had zero luck. For one, due to my appearance, everyone thinks I'm straight at first glance, and since there are lots of straight girls in this specific club, I'm almost instantly overlooked. I have plenty of gay male friends, and plenty of straight male friends, but hardly any female friends at all, of either sexual orientation. How can I remedy this?

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