Now? no no way well maybe a one night threesome but before i got together with my girl I was just all about the one nighters. No commitments and sex without strings. I've even developed a few fuck buddy relationships from it. Now I've grown up. I'm very much in love with my current girlfriend and the sex is almost better than I can handle. We have the best sexual chemistry than any one night stand ever had.
Hell yeah!! lol... I've done it a few times and I'd do it again if I feel like it!
It's interesting 'cuz I've had this conversation w/ my gay friends sooo many times and they have such a different opinion about it. For them it's totally normal! All of them have done it loads of times and actually love to brag about it! When I'm talking to my lezy friends they all go "no way!" and I feel kinda weird to say that I had a few one night stands and would definitely do it again! Why is it such a bad thing? I mean, it's not like I don't like getting to know people, having a thoughtful conversation, being romantic about the whole sex thing (I really am!!)... but sometimes you just need sex!!! lol... and I think that if you feel like doing it, just go ahead and do it!
But before you start throwing stones at me, I'd trade any one night stand for a long-term relationship... Deep down, I am a true romantic... despite of what you might think... ;)
I think if there is a connection, I'd do it. Who am I kidding? I HAVE done it. Hahaha. It's never been that great, but I think if i were massively attracted to someone, then it could be really hot. Usually, though, in order to get to the sweet spot, I need some sort of emotional connection, whether it's formed in one night over drinks or in a longer period of time.
Alright, so I'm not sure exactly what ya consider a one night stand.. I guess I kinda may have had one...does is count if ur friends afterwards lol.. It only happened once, but dont get me wrong I was hoping it would have turned into more... it was instense..
I saw her on myspace and added her and like 3 days later I recognized her a local gay bar..and I asked if it was her and we talked all night and exchanged numbers..we talked and text almost everyday for like a week or two. One night we got together went to the bar and danced and we were both pretty tipsy, dacing turned into making out, and she grabbed me and headed toward the restrooms....i had only been with one girl before this and I just thought she had to piss but the second we got in there she grabbed me and she started kissing..
the funny part was it had 3 stalls with only curtains for doors..and we went to the back and omg she was so loud it was so hot and such a turn on, and EVERYONE heard and then some people even stuck their heads in to watch and we didnt even care and she only got louder and wow.. gawd she was pretty amazing...she lived a few hours away so it was hard for anything to go past that point i guess..
but i adore her..shes so free and artistic and i duno i think shes completely sexy.....
Ive never loved anyone like i love my current gf and the sex is AMAZING and shes the only person ive ever had an orgasm with...like squirting hard core deep orgasm...so i think its better when your on a deeper level with someone....
Yes, Yes, and Yes! Wow that seems to be my answer to a lot on here. One night stands are great! You don't have to put up with the whole "I want more out of this relationship" crap and it is sex at its purist form. Plain old HOT sex. Of course there needs to be an attraction. And for me there usually has to be an alcoholic lubrication. But it is great. So I say go for it, we only live once!
i cant' do them. i'm all up for making out but not the full way. I need to be comfortable with the person and that rarely happens right away. with two girls also emotions usually come into play resulting in it being more than a one night stand.
I would totally do it if I were single or in an open relationship and since my girl and I haven't completely ruled out having threesomes someday, I might still do it eventually. It's the best way to have hot sex without strings attached.
One night stands are great especially if your super horny, but they usually just end up being not so intense as if I were in a relationship with someone.
Sometimes it's better to have sex with someone without knowing them as they could turn you off along the way if you've had a longer intimate convo with them.