I completely prefer the bottom. However, I find that if I don't like a person that much, I will top them. In that case, I get them off, and I just kind of lie and say I'm like a stone femme or something.
I will also top when the person I am with (that I care about/ love) is into it, and wants to switch it up. In those scenarios, I can get really into topping, especially if there is some SM quality.
But, the best for me is being topped. I love love love being submissive for an assertive, hot lady/ boi.
well from the begining ive loved to top.. in virtually EVERY sexual relationship ive been in ive been a top and was never too open to being bottom, well it took me awhile to get to the point that id let somone top me.. plus i always felt it was no use being bottom cuz i never had an orgasm and thought surely im just not capable.. which yes i know thats crazy but my first mind blowing orgasm was with the girl im currently with who is a top herself....and now i have to admit bottom is a wonderful place to be.. but we r not one sided we both top and bottom..
looking at the two of us ppl would call me the femme and her the butch.. but oh my gawd i love to top that girl cuz its a side of her NO ONE has seen... i love to take a girl who identifies "butch/top" and turn the tables.. mmm to make em scream my name...
gah i think i need to go touch myself ..haha..
I bottom more for my current girlfriend than I ever have with anyone else, but then again she's the only person who's ever gotten me off. If I'm just fucking someone, I only top, but in relationships if I feel comfortable, I'll bottom.
Depends on the moment... but I think I like being on top best. I love being in control! Except when it's totally unexpected... you know, when someone comes up to you and just grabs you and tosses you on the bed and climbs on top of you... soooooooo hot!!!